18 months wrap up

Dah lama saya tak update blog saya ni. Lagi seminggu saya akan berumur 1thn 7 bln. On my last visit to paed, the doctor gave me 3 months duration for me to enhance my vocab. :P. She said at my age, i'm suppost to know about 20 words already. Or at least point at the correct object when people shout it. After i rejected her a lot, she also claimed me lacked of iron. Doctor can say anything and people will listen to them. I think she just frustrated since i dun like her. But from my observation, most of her patients dun like her much. A lot of happy faces when in, came out with screaming after that. And i guess she will say bad thing about them also. She should give us a lot of free goodies if she want me to like her. Agree?

On the other occasion, pada suatu hari yg hening tu, saya telah dengan tidak sengaja tertelan syiling. Saya sudah tidak cool lagi ketika itu. Ibu begitu cemas, lalu mengorek mulut saya. Dia berjaya merasa kewujudan syiling di hujung tekak saya. Namun saya dengan tanpa niat mencederakan telah menggigit jari ibu sampai berdarah. Cubaan seterusnya ibu berjaya selepas kelihatan duit syiling 10sen berada di bawah badan saya. Selepas menghembus nafas lega, ibu membelek belek duit tadi dan ragu-ragu sama ada duit itukah yang ditelan saya kerana keadaannya kering sahaja.

Jari ibu yang berlubang digigit

Ibu kemudiannya menelefon Maklong Ina untuk bertanya. Jadi menurutnya dalam keadaan tersebut ibu sepatutnya membaringkan saya di atas ribanya, badan saya mengadap ke bawah,kepala sedikit tinggi dari paras badan dan mengetuk belakang saya antara kepala dan leher cuma sekali hingga cukup kuat untuk mengeluarkan duit syiling yg mungkin berada di kerongkong. Ibu yang mengorek mulut saya mungkin telah menyebabkan saya menelannya. Oleh kerana itu, saya perlu makan banyak buah dengan harapan mampu memberakkan duit syiling itu. Hehe.. Saya taktau saya berak keluar syiling ke tak sebab both my parents tak lalu nak tengok tahi saya yg comel itu.

Akhirnya kami pasrah sahaja. Sehingga ke hari ini saya ok sahaja. Nampaknya situasi itu tidak meninggalkan kemudharatan kepada kesihatan saya hanya saya sudah sangat susah untuk terserempak dengan duit syiling lagi selepas itu.

Ada lagi kisah digigit ni. Hari tu, Paklong buat kenduri arwah di Shah Alam. Tuk pulak nak datang Miri keesokkannya. Paklong telah menjemput kami untuk pulang 2 hari sebelum majlis. Oleh kerana kita tidak boleh menolak jemputan kenduri tanpa keuzuran, kami pun pulang dengan kadar segera. Ha ha ha.. Sebenarnya, tok wan yg sudi sponsor almost all cost kepulangan kami yg tidak dirancang itu. Begitulah selalunya. Kalau balik last2 minute ni, memang tiket sangat mahal dan diluar kemampuan tapi mujurlah saya ada seorang Tokwan yang sangat pemurah. Semoga tokwan sentiasa dimurahkan rezeki..:D

Pada hari untuk berlepas pulang, saya telah disengat oleh binatang yang tidak berperikemanusiaan. Habis wajah comel saya bengkang bengkang. Seminggu jugak la nak surut.

Mata saya yang disengat bukan kerana mengendam ya

Panjang pulak cerita sayakan. Tak larat, tak payah baca. Esok2 aja sambung. Tah bila pulak saya nk menulis ni. He he he.. Semenjak ibu mengandung ni kan, ibu sudah jarang memanjakan saya. Saya dilatih untuk lebih berdikari. Selalu ja cakap saya kena jadi good brother, jaga adik, ajar adik.. Iyolah ibuku sayang. Jadi untuk bermanja manjaan..saya telah menghabiskan masa bersama abah tersayang. Abah ok ja kalau saya minta didukung ke sana ke mari. Abah memang bestlah. Kadang2 tu abah penat la jugak tapi saya buat2 tak paham aja. Bijakkan saya.

Ok lah, cukup setakat ini sahaja. Wish me Happy 19 months old ya later. By the way, saya dah tau to point to my nose dan gigi dengan betul bila disuruh.

Father's Day is everyday


That's why, although i already bought u lunch that day, i still wanna wish u Happy Father's Day today and every coming day. I love u so much. You are my super hero.

Nazhan yang meniru Benjamin Button

Hmm..Alhamdulillah so far so good. Ibu and Nazhan dah sihat. High hope that baby dlm belly pun dlm keadaan sihat sejahtera. Kesian jgk kt baby no 2 ni. Belum scan lagi. Time Nazhan dulu masa p 1st test kt klinik pun dah boleh scan. Kali ni ingat nk p klinik biasa aja tp since 1st visit pun macam tak best so ingat mmg nk terus ke Columbia. Cuma nk kena dpt refference letter dr klinik. Dulu2, dapat reff letter since pernah gugur but ING cakap, confirm pregnant aja means buat pregnancy test kt klinik dah boleh dapat reff letter utk ke hospital.

Tak sabar rasanya nak tgk baby dlm perut ni. Kadang2 rasa gerak2. Padahal awal lagikan. Angin kot. Tapi ibu ada kerisauan la jugak. Since lately ni ada rasa sakit dada. Selalu dapat rasa macam heart beat laju sikit.

Nazhan plk tiba2 suka merangkak and sekali tu siap creeping lagi. Pelik plk ibu rasa. Dah jadi Benjamin Button ke anak aku ni. Tangga memang malas nk climb down since dah master that skill once. Nak kena dukung turun tangga kalau tak memang akan melalak kat depan tangga walaupun ibu dah lama turun bawah.

However, ada good news jgk. Selera makan dia dah bertambah. Mungkin sebab production susu ibu yg merudum. Tapi kesian la time2 nk makan, selalu kena marah dengan ibu sampai berair mata sebab suka panjat meja makan. But the next time makan still nak buat jgk. So ibu akan repeat sampai la Nazhan faham.

Sekarang ni, bila ibu marah dari jauh sebab masukkan toys or anything dalam mulut, Nazhan buat dek aja. Kalau datang dekat baru nak hand it over. Kalau time ibu marah tu dah mmg dekat, sama ada Nazhan hempas benda tu or hand it over nicely tapi still akan ulang bila aja kita lepas pandang.

So marilah kita sama2 sabar dengan diri masing ya Nazhan. Ibu sabar dengan Nazhan, Nazhan pun kena sabar dengan ibu. Ingat, Ibu sentiasa sayang Nazhan ok.

Again..

Heh..guess what? I'm pregnant again. Around 7 weeks by now. Its really a shocked for us. We never plan to be this soon. However Allah Penentu SegalaNya.

Taraa..

I was late for few days for my menstrual and then did the pregnancy test while my husband was away. When the 2nd line appeared,i just can't stop calculating. When he came back, i guided him to the bath room and when he found out, the reaction was not the happy face but not the really bad one either.But that only at the beginning. Now we are happy to accept a new member in the family. Hope we get a girl this time.

After abah came back, the next day he got sick. After he recovered, Ibu and Nazhan pulak. Every one of us had the baby blues, i guess. Hehe..

Well, i really hope this 2nd experience will make me stronger. Also no need to have the morning sickness or whut so ever since i have Nazhan to take care of now.

So far, belum muntah2 lagi. Just when i'm sicked last time, i had a heavy headache and made me to use koyok all over my forehead all night long. The next morning till today, the koyok's mark still obvious. I guess i allergic to it. This is the 1st time ever i'm allergic to something.

What gonna happen to my supply now?

During Gawai holiday, we just stayed at home. Boring gila. But that's not for long. Now, everyone is in good health again. Doa2 la ibu sihat selalu and thank you to my super hubby yang always willing to help in anyway he can.


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Saya demam

Saya demam sejak 2 hari yg lepas dan semalam saya cirit birit and still going on. However demam dah kebah, tinggal balance2 aja. Doakan saya sihat walafiat cepat ya. Saya amat tak suka makan ubat dan cirit birit ni. Masa 1st day kena, saya termuntah pukul 1am dan semalam saya tidur nearly at 3am. Hopefully malam ni, saya dpt tidur dengan aman. Kesian both my parents yg kena dengar saya melalak dan asyik basuh punggung saya aja.

Cuba teka saya tengah tidur ka jaga?
Tidur laa..


Masih lg larat untuk kerja2 dapur

Pada mulanya..

saya plan nak tolong abah cuci kereta..

tapi ada yang mengganggu kosentrasi saya..


dan akhirnya saya terjerumus dan terus meninggalkan plan asal menolong abah


aummm..(macam bunyi serigala) ..bila sudah naik syeikh

The door to Narnia?

Is this the door to Narnia?


Nopee..It's just bathroom *sigh*

Pondok pondok

Mai la main pondok-pondok dengan saya. Syok tau. Ha tak tau macam mana nak main? Ha..macam ni, saya demo ya.

Mula mula masuk dulu. Jemput masuk semua. Banyak lagi ruang ada ni


Opsi, lupa plk tutup pintu. Sorry sorry...


Tutup tutup pintu. Kalau ada orang bagi salam, ngendap dulu. Jangan main bukak aja tau.



Ha.. lepas tu..masa nak bukak jerit sikit. Bagi terkejut org kat luar yg dok skoding tu.


On the count of three, slide down.. yihaa..


Macam tu la cari nak main pondok-pondok version kotak ni.

p/s : dr ibu:Jadilahkan Nazhan dr takdak.

Spending time for your kids is real LOVE

Practically all parents consider their children as their most important asset. So we send them for additional lessons in music, art, computer, speech and drama, dance, ballet, tennis, etc. We also buy for them expensive toys, computer games, etc. to keep them occupied. We think that by doing so we are giving them a head start in life. But we seldom stop to ask ourselves whether we have equipped them for a life of self-worth and confidence. Why do I say that?

 It has been said that by the time a child is seven years old; his attitude is set for life. And when our young child constantly pelts us with his questions, (and we are hard pressed by our furiously competitive jobs) how do we normally respond? Have we stopped and reflected on our attitude towards his insatiable questioning?

 Now consider for a moment, a child coming into a room to ask Dad or Mom questions or to invite Mom or Dad to play with him or to request spending time with Dad or Mom, but the parent frequently says, “I’m too busy now.” What does that signal to the child? To the child the message is perceived as. “To Dad, I’m not as important as the newspaper he is reading or the time he spends doing his work at the computer. To Mom, I’m not worth as much as her soap opera on television.”

 We forget that children rarely want to spend much time in conversation with their parents. Yes, they ask lots of questions and when they get the answers, they then move on to the next thing that captures their attention. They may sit close a while, perhaps give or receive a hug, and then they are off.

 If you are a parent, I would encourage you to make time for your child when your child needs a moment. Most chores can be postponed for a few seconds or minutes. Most activities can be interrupted without you suffering harm or losing out on important information. If you must delay your response to your child for a minute or two, call your child to your side and put your arm around him so that you convey the message, “I want you close to me. I like being with you. I’m not rejecting you, merely delaying my response to your question for a few moments.”
We don’t think of the harm we are doing to their adult life when we fail to give them the time they need.

Imagine what it is like whenever we go and talk to our boss and our boss frequently has no time for us. Our confidence will be shattered and our self-worth will plunge drastically. What about the child when we unthinkingly do the same? Have we spent time reflecting on this? Have I unconsciously sent a message to my child that might be summed up, “What I want to do is vastly more important than whatever pain I cause you.” This message will be internalized by the child as “I am not worth being around” “I am not worthy to be appreciated and noticed” and it will show up later in his life as a lack of self-worth.

 Parents, who make time to informally tutor their child and not scold them whenever the child asks question, will give the child a very strong sense of self-identity and self-worth. They affirm their child. They give their attention to their child. They acknowledge to the child that he is important and worth listening to. The child will have this intuitive sense that, “I am important to my parents. I am so important that they want the very best for me, including the very best education they believe they can give to me. I am so important that they are willing to spend time and energy with me. My parents believe I have the ability to learn and are willing to teach me, and therefore, I must be able to learn well.” A cycle is created: the child is encouraged, the child feels worthy, and the child makes an even bigger effort in learning as a result of the feelings of self-worth. So the child achieves more and learns more. Through his accomplishments and the resulting praises and cheers from the parents, the child has an enhanced feeling of self-worth and the cycle goes round again.

 Unfortunately today, we have a mantra that many parents repeat by saying, “I spend quality time with my child and I don’t need quantity time with my child.” They delude themselves! A child, who often does not feel he has access to his parents when he needs the access, does not feel he is loved. He will feel ignored, shunned, insecure and of less worth. Such a child will inevitably have problem with his sense of self-worth later on in life.

The essence of our love for our children is not what we provide for them, but how much we give of ourselves to them. Men, in particular, often don’t understand this. Many have said, “I don’t understand my children. I provide them with everything they need. They don’t appreciate my hard work for them. What more do they want?” They want you! Your ears, your attention, your presence--- Yes your time.

“What that must be a joke. Where do I find the time in my stressful life?” you say.
 Your most precious gift is your time. Only when you give up your (leisure, computer, game, social, TV, etc) time, do you truly prove your love for your children. Whenever you give your time, you are making a sacrifice, and sacrifice is the essence of love. Thus, you show your love in action and not in words only.

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Happy Mother's Day

Merenung nasib dua beranak ni..


We went back to kampung for a week and spent time with my husband's families at his company's vacation house at Batu Ferrenghi last weekend.

Best Buddies

Instead of going back straight to Miri from Penang, we decide to drive to Shah Alam to met my brothers and celebrate Mother's Day together. So, last night we had a lovely dinner at Kelana Jaya and today before going back, we had another lunch.

Mother's Day Lunch

However, we were stranded at KLIA from 1.30pm till 8.40 pm. Its because when we arrived to check-in, the flight already over-booked, although our ticket already confirmed. So, we were recompensed to board with business class ticket with access to the golden lounge and also lunch coupons.

Golden Lounge @ KLIA

Luckily the lounge were occupied with kids corner and Nazhan can spent his time there with toys that i hope i can buy for him one day.

Kids' Corner @ Golden Lounge

Happy Mother's Day to every moms. This is my 2nd year as a mother. And for this year i get a fridge magnet from Nazhan that i chose myself and paid with his abah's money. Haha!!! I'll took a picture of it later.

Latest breaking news, our flight will be delay to 9.10pm. Grrrrrr....
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